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Ideas to say I Love You
A New Beginning, A New Chapter
Go to a used bookstore to find a nice looking book. What kind of book it is doesn’t really matter so long as it’s pretty and will look decorative.
What you’ll want to do next is cut out letters or print out quotes that refer to forgiveness or starting over. These should also look nice because they’re going to be a part of this project.
Take the book and try to cut out a few page middles so that you have a hollow space in the middle. Place the quotes at the bottom of this section and then place a few smaller photos of you and your partner in the hollow book as well.
Write on the first page (that you should leave in place) something to the effect of: My life is an open book, but I’d like to start over with you at the first chapter.
I know that we’ve done some things that have made the plot twist, but I’d like to reach the end of our book with you.
You can choose to wrap the book up or simply take the book and give it to your partner.
Promising Your Love
Here’s a fun way to make up with your partner: When Sam and Emily had a big fight, they’d normally sulk around each other for a while, which didn’t help because it seemed tot both of them that they were not ready to make up, nor did they really care if they did.
This time, Sam decided that he wanted to do something different to show Emily that he loved her instead of just stomping around until someone apologized.
He got out a picture of Emily when she was smiling and happy, pasted it on a piece of paper and wrote:
“Dear Emily, This is the smile that I fell in love with. It lights up the room, it lights up my life, and I can not imagine a day without it. When we fight, it becomes dark and I can’t think straight until we figure things out. I don’t want to miss your smile for one more minute.
I promise that I never mean to hurt you when I’m angry and I promise that I will always love you.
I’m sorry and I love you. Sam.”
Emily couldn’t help but smile when she read this and they made a list together of promises for each other. Signing it, they hung it on the wall to remind each other.
When You’re In Money Trouble Take your partner out on cheap dates – the library, the museum, etc.
Money can be a wonderful thing in life or something that you just can’t stand to think about. Having money troubles as a couple can be a difficult time and cause a lot of stress and anxiety.
Since money is the top reason for many divorces and breakups, showing a little love at this time can help to smooth things over and make your life a bit happier in the process.
Show them that it’s not their money that you’re interested in – just spending time with them.
Make a promise to help in any way that you can – Maybe you can both create a spending plan that will help you get out of your money problems. Sometimes it’s just too overwhelming and the stress of not knowing how to get out of trouble can harm a relationship. Make a budget and stick to it as a couple.
Don’t make a big deal out of it – Unless you’re threatened with something really horrible because of your money problems, chances are good that making a big deal out of it will only be damaging to your relationship. Laugh about it and treat it like something that you will overcome. And soon enough, you will.
Find creative ways to give gifts without spending any money. It’s amazing what you can find around the house when you try.
Taking On The Blame Leave them love letters that remind them of how much you love them – Place one in a plastic bag on the windshield of their car.
When you’ve had a fight and you just want things to be better again, it’s time to show your partner how much you care about them and their happiness.
Write “I’m sorry” across the bathroom mirror so they see it when they wake up the next morning.
Leave them a note with a small tube of super glue – the note can read, “My heart is broken because of our fight. Can you help me glue it back together?”
When Frederick and Cindy had another large fight, they just didn’t know how to get back to normal. Frederick still felt mad about what happened and Cindy wasn’t sure how to fix things.
When Frederick left for work, she took out an old video that they’d purchased from a video store and found a “Please be kind and rewind” sticker on it.
She placed a picture on the box of them together and placed the sticker on the picture.
She left it for Frederick to find. He thought it was hilarious and sweet, which broke the tension and got their relationship back on track.
When There’s Been A Crime Don’t shy away from helping them out – You want to be there for them no matter how difficult it might be for you to be in a police station or to look at the crime scene.
Hopefully, you won’t have to deal with the fallout of a crime that’s happened to you or to your partner, but if you do, being the loving partner will be the best way to help them heal from the trauma that may have happened.
Let them talk about it as much as they want – Your partner will appreciate that you are listening to them.
Write them encouraging notes and then have them mailed at different times from different places – For example, you can write something as simple as, “I know this is a hard time for you, so if you need anything, just let me know.” By receiving these unexpected cheer up cards, they will feel your love.
Give a lot of hugs – Some of the trauma of crime is not feeling as safe as you did before the crime occurred. By giving a lot of hugs and holding them close, reminding them that you will protect them, you are helping to heal their emotional wounds.
Ideas to say I Love You